We asked Craig Eggleton, a member of our small groups staff serving as a groups coach, to reflect on his many coaching experiences and answer the question for us, “what makes a good small group leader?” you can keep up with craig on twitter @craigeggleton.
Thanks for the line guys! This is gonna be a two part blog series that I hope will emphasize the obvious and not-so obvious (we will say hidden) qualities I have observed over and over again in good small group leaders at the Summit. The list below is a snapshot of some obvious yet essential qualities in good small group leaders. The list is by no means exhaustive, but these four character traits are certainly necessary for every group leader.
Christ-likeness – All church leaders ought to exude a lifestyle that models the character of Jesus. Out of Christ-like character flows all good and necessary character qualities for good leadership in the church. Christ-likeness does not require perfection, but does imply the person conducts his or her life in a way that honors the Lord. It means we are motivated by grace to live according to the commands of Scripture, even when it is difficult. Christ-like people are dependent on God in all that he or she does.
Able to lead – Small group leaders are technically not “pastors,” but some pastoral qualities are still necessary for small group leaders. Small Group members should find it easy and natural to follow their leader. This does not mean a leader has to be an extraverted, life of the party kind of person. It means that a leader has courage to assume leadership roles with gentleness and compassion for the small group members.
Loves to see people grow in Christ – The goal of a great small group leader is NOT to have great discussions or even to have great small group meetings. The goal of a good small group leader is to move toward biblical community and foster discipleship among the small group members. Discipleship does not just happen. A good small group leader will actively emphasize and create an atmosphere for life on life discipleship.
Willingness to share leadership opportunities – Contrary to popular belief, a great leader is not defined by how well he can juggle everything that needs to be accomplished in a small group setting. Great leaders are gauged by how well they lead and equip those around him them. Each small group member should find a way to participate somehow, and good small group leaders will find ways to get everyone involved in the ownership of the group.
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Monday Rewind
Resources from 12.19/20.2009 at the Summit
- Series: Foretold
- Sermon: “The Son pt. 2” Isaiah 9:1-7
- Small Group Member Guide
- Small Group Leader Guide